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Sunday, April 27, 2025

Travancore Medical College - TCASH&TSAHS ARR 2025

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TRAVANCORE COLLEGE & SCHOOL OF ALLIED HEALTH SCIENCES

"Elevate Your Professionalism - Unlock Your Potential!"

Learning and embracing professional behavior is crucial to excelling in the academics and in workplace. Employers expect both prospects and staff to reflect professionalism while interacting with others. Employees who exhibit personal professionalism enjoy more benefits, such as career growth and increments and happiness. In this one day training, we discuss professionalism and guide you in developing professional attributes for making you more effective corporate ready.

Travancore College of Allied Health Sciences & Travancore school of Allied Health Sciences are attached to Travancore Medical College Hospital, a 750+ bedded super specialty hospital situated in Travancore Medicity Campus in Kollam. From different courses, there were around 350 students participating in this session. Participants were enthusiastic and feedback was excellent

Dept. Of Income Tax - Two days Interactive Sessions @ Kendriya Bhavan DEC 24

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Dept. of Income Tax @ Kendriya Bhavan Kochi

-Two days Interactive Sessions DEC 24

Day 1 Topics

Mastering Self: Strategies for a Balanced Life

Day 2 Topics

Team Management Communication and Public Speaking Skills

Navy Children's School Primary Teachers Training - OCT 2024

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A wrong Question - Do you Understand !!

It was a session on how to manage misbehavior in teenage children by improving communication and relationship. Knowing what students think makes a good teacher, a great Guru. But most of the times our mind gets conditioned so much by the circumstances, that we can not see the obvious. This NLP based session discussed how to make communication work better. The session was at Naval school Cochin, conducted by Centre for Faculty development. 21 Teachers from Navy School, from across the country participated very actively in the session. Thank you The Commanding Officer & Principal Navy School Cochin.

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Excelling in Professionalism @ BCF College Of Physiotherapy - VAIKOM - MAR 2024

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Excelling in Professionalism @ BCF College Of Physiotherapy Indo-American Brain And Spine Hospital - VAIKOM - MAR 2024

Learning and embracing professional behavior s crucial to excelling in the workplace. Employers expect both prospects and staff to reflect professionalism while interacting with others. Employees who exhibit personal professionalism enjoy more benefits, such as career growth and increments and happiness. In this one day training, we discuss professionalism and guide you in developing professional attributes for making you corporate ready

Manage Self Not Stress - ATMA @ Kalamassery Block Panchayat - DEC 2022

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Manage Self Not Stress - ATMA Agricultural Technology Management Agency @ Kalamassery Block Panchayat - DEC 2022

Self-management is our ability to manage our behaviors, thoughts, and emotions in a conscious and productive way. Self-management means you understand your personal responsibility in different aspects of your life, and you do what you need to fulfill that responsibility.

Why self-management is critical?
From an organizational perspective, the ability of team members to self-manage is critical to the effective functioning of an organization. Imagine an environment where the majority of those working within it were unable to stay on task, on strategy, and on schedule. That would make it very challenging to complete projects.

Self-management is a critical workplace skill. This session explores a self-management definition, and tips to improve your self-management skills.

Manage Self Not Stress - ATMA @ Vadavukode Block Panchayat - NOV 2022

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Manage Self Not Stress - ATMA Agricultural Technology Management Agency @ Vadavukode Block Panchayat - NOV 2022

Manage Self Not Stress - Agricultural Technology Management Agency ATMA @ Narakkal - NOV 2022

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Manage Self Not Stress - ATMA Agricultural Technology Management Agency @ Narakkal

Self-management is a critical workplace skill. This session explores a self-management definition, and tips to improve your self-management skills.

NLP in Daily Life (FEB 2022)

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Neuro-linguistic programming (NLP); primarily founded by John Grinder, a linguist, and Richard Bandler, an information scientist & mathematician in the 1970s, is a psychological approach that involves analyzing strategies used by successful individuals and applying them to reach a personal goal. It relates thoughts, language, and patterns of behavior learned through experience to specific outcomes. This online session was a humble effort to throw some light on the basic concepts of NLP and few NLP Presuppositions which we already use or which we can learn and apply in daily life for achieving personal success. The program was organized by V4Mente,a society of psychology enthusiasts, working towards their vision of creating 'mentally healthy earthlings'

ചപ്പാത്തിക്കെന്താ കറി ...?(Chappatthikkenthaa curry...?) -- Communication Problem

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https://youtu.be/gwKEHVDoyiU

Watch this !!!

A man feared his wife wasn’t hearing as well as she used to and he thought she might need a hearing aid. Not quite sure how to approach her, he called the family Doctor to discuss the problem. The Doctor told him there is a simple informal test the husband could perform to give the Doctor a better idea about her hearing loss...

Idea & Script: Rajesh Panicker

Camera: Mayan Vaidar Shah

Editing: Gurukripa Aluva

Direction: Viswam Panambukad

Acted & created by 16th Batch Students of Santhwana Institute Of Counselling And Psychotherapy under the guidance of Fr. Dr. Varghese Pudussery CMI, Ph.D.

The psychological problem of "always feeling cheated"

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Why do I always think my partner is cheating on me?

'You' only can answer this question as usually people believe that when they have the feeling it is because of signs. You feel like 'your gut' is always telling you this truth. But if there is no solid evidence then be careful as your paranoia, lack of trust and insecurities can destroy relationships and state of mind. Why does it happen?

You can be jealous, and it is a natural instinct when you are heads over heels in love with someone. Might be your instincts telling you something. When you have something really great, it's easy to get caught up in your head imagining it not being there anymore. Due to some incident which has occupied in the subconscious mind may lead you to think, your partner is cheating on you. If your partner has not given you a reason to distrust him/her then this insecurity feeling is coming directly from inside of your mind.

Maybe something similar has happened in a previous relationship and this is an insecurity that has stuck with you over time. Yes, history is said to be a good teacher, and when you were repeatedly betrayed, you tend to "learn" that the people you love will eventually either leave or prove not to be deserving of your trust.

A lot of concerns regarding an unfaithful spouse, if there are no real indications or clear red flags that they could be cheating, stem from own insecurities. You create your own demons in your relationships; you feel poorly about yourself, push those insecurities onto your significant other, and almost convince them that they were too good for you and bound to find someone better, if they hadn't already. If couldn't see the beauty and amazing traits about yourself that your soulmate is attracted to, so you will have nothing in your brain to convince you that you are worthy of a faithful partner.

It can be a trust issue. It may be because you do not trust and love your partner, but not ready to take the blame on you. Maybe you've been hurt before in the past by a significant other being disloyal, which you are trying to impose on your present relationship. Because you've had bad experience of someone breaking your trust and tiny little happenings are triggering something in your mind that makes your brain match whatever is happening right now what you have experience with.

You feel that your partner isn't showing you as much attention as he/she used to, as your irritating character becomes your nature which push him/her away. Attachment issues and fear of being abandoned are very common fears, especially if one has been hurt in such ways in the past. Although one logically knows that they are wrong (unless evidence says otherwise), the nagging feeling often persists, and causes the individual distress. It's essentially what I would call a "conflict between your mind and your heart".

Or maybe it's just because you're really stressed out and everything seems to turn against you, even within your love life. Maybe because you have cheated and think your partner will do the same. Not everyone is the same. Love and trust go together and when feel doubts and insecurities and you don't have any solid to prove your doubts then you need to look at yourself and see why you are thinking or feeling this way.

Or maybe you love your partner so much that you can't bear to think how your life without him/her might be, so you're constantly worrying that something is going to go wrong and ruin the perfect fairytale you have panned out in your mind? It's natural, but if your partner is making an effort to be loyal, make sure you recognize it as this will help put your fears to rest as well. Give it a thought :)

Sometimes it very hard to understand what is going on. The brain is a strange part of our body. It is always thinking harder than it actually should and can come up with some very far fetched situations. Sometimes we look for problems in other people when we ourselves are feeling lost. Find more information within yourself as to why you feel this way.

Realise that you are not alone. You will be better if you are realistic in acknowledging the possibility that it could happen but that could be exhausting as a constant thought. Invest all these waisted energy into something productive for building the relationship. If you would like to talk with him about your fears, please try to remain open and optimistic about his/her answers. Explain that this is a fear and not an accusation(You too always remember that while talking).

Find ways to install your trust back. Don't try installing software to track him/her, instead confront him/her, but don't accuse him/her of anything it will make him/her defensive. Start of by saying "I haven't seen you that much at home, is everything alright" "Is there something you need to tell me".

Honesty is the key -- Get out of your prejudiced mind and have a good, long conversation with your partner about how you feel. But it should not end up as a heated argument as you may use the opportunity to express your righteousness. You can definitely change your thinking and lead a happy , calmer and peaceful life if you stop OVER THINKING.

You may be facing the psychological problem of NLD (Non-verbal Learning Disorder). You may feel cheated because you may feel many people still refuse to understand you. Other problems also will pop up because that's the nature of NLD. NLD isn't one or even ten learning disorders but many. No matter how "fine" you seems there will always be an unknown hill to navigate. That's one reason anxiety is usually concurrent with NLD. Depression is common. So are other neurological and "emotional" problems. Just trying to deal with NLD can cause "emotional/mental" problems.

Always remember that NLD can affect everything from spatial, organizational, executive functioning, social and cognitive problems. Most people don't have every problem. There is no definitive criteria for diagnosing NLD but a substantial difference between verbal and performance IQ is often the standard.

Sometimes it is very difficult to find out your inner strength. The bothersome feelings can often however, be alleviated by means of therapeutic techniques such as CBT, and behavioral techniques such as meditation. If one believes their issue to be pathological, then it is best to go see a psychologist or physician, as only health care practitioners are qualified to issue diagnoses and offer treatments.

Do not learn from your mistakes !!!

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Don't repeat the same mistakes again

As the saying goes, you should learn from your mistakes. Really? We don't want to make mistakes again, right? That's why they say we should learn from our mistakes. It depends on our perception. It can be a risky business as sometimes our mind can play games and the learned lessons can really be misleading too. Moreover often we twist reality according to our belief system so that it looks like we didn't make a mistake at all. Because by default we don't like to feel bad. Thus if you fail, even to recognize that you have made one, then from where will you learn? When we do something our brain creates a memory pathway. That's a natural way of conditioning, a type of learning. But we didn't learn those lessons purposefully.

The neural pathways created while doing something, right or wrong builds our habits. Its obvious as we can see many examples in our life and lives of people around us. This is true in the case of repeatedly making mistakes and trying to learn lessons too. The very process of scanning the past mistakes again and again for learning that lesson can be really dangerous. Especially when we are not sure about our expertise in learning lesson properly. Why we keep making the same mistakes is that we slip by default back into the existing memory pathways. Yes, our brain do learn from making mistakes, … they learn how to make them.

Solution is that we stop trying to learn from past mistakes. Remembering them will encourage us to get guided by the previous neural pathway. Instead think about what we want to achieve and view it from a fresh angle. Learn right, right now.

Develop a better, new perspective!

Why fight in marriage? - A password to avoid fight !!!

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A password to avoid fight !!!

It is completely normal and healthy for couples to have small fights frequently in a relationship. It is not the number of fights but how you fight is important, like fight that involve criticism, contempt, name-calling or yelling, are lethal for the relationship

As per Transactional Analysis, all living beings live for positive strokes. We do everything in our life for being happy, yes; of course including marriage, as in the case of building any other relationship. In marriage, you can see that during the initial phase of relationship all are very happy, like they have conquered the world. Every couple thinks that it's their partner who can understand them better than anybody in this world. Clarity of vision is there regarding each other. They can clearly see what is going on in their partner's mind, their feelings in their heart. They compete to make each other happy. They are ready to forgive and forget the mistakes of each other (though later they will claim it as their "broad-mindedness" while they fight).

But as time goes, because of challenges in the life, and social interactions, the complexity and lack of communication; negativity accumulates and clarity is lost. The relationships gets spoilt and an overall toxicity sets in. Mind is more easily influenced by the negative advices of toxic people, unconsciously creating an impression in the thought pattern. Fight is always because of ego and deprivation of reciprocal trust. Lack of trust will lead to fear. In intimate relationships disconnection occurs when the anxiety or fear in one causes the friction and then creates a sense of inadequacy in the other.

Sex and money are the most “important” things couples get mad at each other. But less important things such as sexual jealousy, hating each other's friends, dealing with each other's family, and discussing children, social life, etc., are factors that cause the most conflict.

What is the solution? As the solution for pollution is dilution, you have to dilute the toxicity in relationship with the help of positive thoughts and practical tips.

Love and compassion are very essential for the relationship to last for ever.
One’s shortcomings should be given less attention and trust should be given more importance.
Develop patience.
Never insult and do not degrade
Accept.
Stop digging into the past pain
And stop demanding.

If you and your pain are important, then where is the importance of your soulmate and the relationship? Learn to forgive if you really love your life partner. There is a password to login to your most beautiful relationship...

….the password is "I CARE"

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How to get help from an online therapist?

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It is very simple to get connect online with a therapist. You can use platforms like google, zoom or WhatsApp and phone calls for follow up. You can discuss and select your choice of method to chat. And find help to get right solutions for those struggles you face in your life. A trained therapist will however charge a fee for every chat or session. All your personal and private information is safe with us, as we do not record or share any details that you disclose with us. You have a choice to remain anonymous as we do not try to trace you by any means.

Speak to us if you want to try first. You can then fix the counselling and therapy sessions

So, we are here for you, for all kinds of challenges like, child, adolescence and adult issues - like cooping with divorce, anger, anxiety, illness and hospital experiences, old age issues, family stress, finding who you are, etc. . We want you to get the best support possible. We provide various therapies like CBT, EMDR, DBT, Gestalt, T.A., NLP, Hypnotherapy, Yoga, etc. You can fix an appointment with us by contacting us over WhatsApp / the mobile number +919446607585 and click on link YUP Online (at the top corner of blog page) at the scheduled time for a session on zoom meeting. Because you deserve a better, peaceful life!!! That's it.